Thursday, October 25, 2012

Social Transformation Using the Three-Fold Path Workshop


On Dr. Martin Luther King’s Jr. Holiday Weekend, Saturday, January 19, the Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples and the Occupy Be the Change Caucus will convene a workshop on using the Gandhi-King holistic three-fold path as a means to foster fundamental social transformation.

Opening panelists will include Dr. Dorsey Blake (Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples), Brenda Salgado (Movement Strategy Center), Mary Lim Lampe (Genesis), and Kazu Haga (Positive Peace Warriors Network).

Transforming our global society into a truly compassionate community is an urgent necessity. To be successful, we need to assure that our means are consistent with our ends.

By growing activist, caring communities that integrate the personal, the social, and the civic, as did Mahatma Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., we can foster what Gandhi called “evolutionary revolution.” We can create models of the change we seek and strengthen our efforts to fundamentally, steadily reform our social system.

Dr. King declared, “An edifice that produces beggars needs restructuring.” He also insisted, “Power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic,” and affirmed, “Our goal is to create a beloved community and this will require a qualitative change in our souls as well as a quantitative change in our lives.”

Gandhi wrote, “Nonviolence is not a garment to be put on and off at will. Its seat is in the heart, and it must be an inseparable part of our very being.” And he pointed out, “Nonviolence, which is a quality of the heart, cannot come by an appeal to the brain. It is a plant of slow growth, growing imperceptibly, but surely.”

By engaging in ongoing personal development, we can undo our negative conditioning. We can, for example, become less self-centered, competitive, judgmental, and dominating (or submissive). By becoming better human beings, we better serve others and our environment.

By building alternative communities, institutions, and structures, we can demonstrate creative new possibilities, foster personal development, and grow joyous communities that attract involvement.

By undertaking campaigns to improve public policies that are focused on achievable objectives and rooted in love and the quest for reconciliation, we can build momentum, inspire hope, and improve living conditions.

Efforts in these three areas reinforce one another. The stronger we are as individuals, the more we contribute to our communities and effective civic engagement. Strong communities nurture strong individuals and provide a foundation for effective action. And effective action enhances personal strength and builds social infrastructure. Communities rooted in this Gandhi-King holistic three-fold path hold great potential for contributing to fundamental, lasting social transformation.

The January 19 Social Transformation Using the Three-Fold Path Workshop is for those who are interested in practicing this path, want to do so, or already do. We will share experiences, ask questions, and learn from each other about how we might deepen and improve efforts to grow compassionate communities whose members support one another in their personal development, community service, and civic engagement.

This free workshop will be held 9:30 am – 3:30 pm in San Francisco. To register, visit http://surveymonkey.com/s/ThreeFoldPath

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Reader's Responses

Following are replies to recent posts:

In reply to "I want to know and be known":
Quite powerful!
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Wade, this is extraordinary.  I hear you! Wow. Blessings,
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Muy bueno Wade!!! TE FELICITO!!!
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Whoa. Have you experienced that with someone?
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This is beautiful...did you write this Wade?.... you deserve the kind of love you talk about in this poem...
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Inspiring thought
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A poet too, eh? May your wishes be granted.
In reply to "I want to touch and be touched":

Love it! 
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It is so good to know that you have found a love
and are thriving!
Good blessings! 
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nice, is there someone new?
Hugs
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That is an excellent statement, Wade! Sent it to a few close friends. 
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Thank you Wade, this poem is beautiful and speaks to some of my desires as well. I hope you are experiencing this kind of love. 
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Ahh ... nothing like a new novia in the life of the ancient ones. 
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I've been reflecting back over my life and musing about how much I brought into this life when I came to be here at this time in history. And recognizing more fully than ever that I've KNOWN "it" all along. It's like someone told me once: 'You know and you know you know."
This beautiful writing makes me know the same thing about you. You KNOW and you brought the KNOWING in with you. For a young man to have written this in 1984, you have to know that it is amazing and a "highly conscious" statement. It obviously came from your Soul through your heart.
I am honored to know you - one with such a full understanding of what it means to be a human - and what it means to honor another and TO LOVE consciously. And a joy, that a human male would want to love a human woman - an equal and a partner - in this way fills me with HOPE of a world/a humanity THAT CAN AND WILL CHANGE.
(I'm remembering what you shared recently about a new relationship developing. Now, I'm really smiling for both you AND HER! )
I'm going to print it off as a reminder of the fullness that is possible in human LOVING and when I read it each time, I will "be amazed" at your ability to describe how to be a CONSCIOUS HUMAN... So beautiful, so touching, and so filled with Soul Clarity.
In gratitude for your sharing, 
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thank you sir for the Wade Weekly: I want to touch and be touched was a hit especially with the ladies.


Saturday, October 13, 2012

I want to know and be known


I want to know and be known,
bare my soul and see your soul,
encounter your higher self
undiminished
as mine is encountered,
engage in deep, intimate, open, honest, mutual, reciprocal
exchange of energy
without reserve,
discuss important aspects of our lives,
including our challenges,
acknowledge shortcomings, weaknesses, mistakes,
share resolutions,
probe and be probed
with our whole being,
ask thoughtful questions
in order to
better understand each other,
listen deeply,
explore key questions together,
really hear the other,
nourish water from a deeper well,
meet each other as whole borderless souls
that are more than the sum of our parts,
spirits that are necessarily enfleshed
and bodies that are necessarily enspirited,
rooted in the relationship between us
as we stand together on the ground of being
and live in the light of our relationship
that fills the universe
like the air we breathe,
attend your soul exclusively
as all that exists at the moment,
spontaneous and fearless,
not in order to use you
in a series of transactions
but simply be with your soul,
present
so presence can emerge and confront us with spirit,
care for and aid you
as you care for and aid me,
see you as you really are
as you see me,
where silence enables us to communicate
more deeply
than words ever can,
beyond understanding,
where only the other soul is present,
immeasurable, without compare,
always new,
without density,
immatereial,
timeless,
unpredictable,
freewheeling.

For all this,
with thanks to Martin Buber
whose I and Thou inspired
and informed this affirmation,
I actively wait,
available,
aware that I can be in relation
even if the other is not in relation with me,
knowing these moments
of soulful encounter
that never last
are possible
any time
with anyone
and with life itself.

I prepare,
ready to respond
when the chance for authentic dialog
appears,
and await the grace of God
without seeking it.

Saturday, October 6, 2012

I want to touch and be touched


I want
to touch
and be touched,
to hold
and be held,
to caress
and be caressed.

I want to communicate,
exchange ideas,
                        feelings,
                           dreams,
                               memories,
talk and listen,
understand and be understood,
give and receive
    advice,
        encouragement,
             empathy,
                  criticism.

I want to play,
                       dance,
                                  explore,’
                                               travel,
                                                         kick back,
                                                                         rejoice.

I want to be sexual,
to give and receive
sexual energy.
The more you are turned on,
the more I am turned on.

I want to be close
           and
                    free,
to know that I am in relationship
because each of us
wants
          to be
                  in relationship,
                     here and now.

I do not want
either of us
to feel coerced,
     pressured,
           or manipulated
into being together.

I want to be together only
if and when
we truly want
to be together.

I do not want to be with you
because I am afraid
that if I do something else,
you will leave me,
      or get angry,
           or be hurt.

Nor do I want you to be with me
for any
of the same reasons.

I do not want to be dependent on you,
and I do not want you to be dependent on me.

I am not yours
and you are not mine.

I do not want to be devastated
if you leave me,
nor do I want you to be devastated if I leave you.
I am not responsible for your pain
or pleasure
and you are not responsible for mine.

I want to be able to live a full life without you
and I want you to be able to live a full life without me.

I want to be free to have other close relationships,
be they physical or otherwise.
And I want you to have the same freedom.

I want to overcome my jealousies,
And I want you to overcome yours.

I do not want to be expected to reveal everything to you,
nor do I expect you to reveal everything to me.

I’ll give you my heart,
but not my soul,
and you can keep yours too.

I want to make decisions together,
out of equal power
with mutual consent.

I want to be your lover,
not your boss,
or your slave.

I want to maintain my commitment to my work,
my people,
all people,
the stars above.
And I want you to be creative too.

I do not want to be your savior,
and I don’t want you to be mine.

I want to enjoy being alone when I am alone,
and I want you to do the same.

I want to know that you will often be there for me
when I want you,
but I don’t expect you to always be there,
and don’t want you to expect that from me either.

I want a touchstone, not a prison.

I want a commitment, not an obligation.

I want to love
and be loved.

                                                                                   Wade Lee Hudson
                                                                                   San Francisco
                                                                                   1984