Sunday, October 30, 2011

Occupy Turning Point

The Occupy movement has hit a nerve, energized the grassroots, and made it easier for the mainstream media to talk about the elephant in the room: the increasing concentration of wealth and power in the United States. As such, the movement merits strong support. But if it’s going to grow, it needs to get its act together.

As I’ve experienced it in San Francisco, the movement also deserves support because of the tone that it has established. Both when I participate in General Assemblies and talk with individuals, including those who are exercising leadership in this so-called “leaderless” movement, I am reminded of how in Why Tribe Gary Snyder said that we could recognize fellow members of that great underground counter-culture that has challenged dominant cultures since the beginning of modern civilization by a “bright and tender look; calmness and gentleness, freshness and ease of manner.”

That description sums up my impression of the San Francisco occupiers. An undercurrent of anger runs through the occupation. On occasion, one hears expressions of rage about what is happening in this country. But that anger is not predominant. It seems that more so than any movement that I’ve experienced in my 47 years of activism, these occupiers are able to set their anger aside, tap even deeper feelings of love, and allow that positive energy to be their driving force. After all, it’s that love that prompts us to get angry. But unfortunately, it’s easy to get stuck in anger. These young men and women seem to have largely learned to avoid that trap.

Even Michael Moore is caught up in the joy of the movement. When he spoke to Occupy SF for about 15 minutes yesterday, he was downright giddy. His written work can sometimes get too carried away with vitriol for my taste. But his humor was on refreshing display at Justin Herman Plaza.

“It’s already so big, and it’s not even organized,” he said. “The media wants to know who organized this. I’ll tell you who. Bank of America organized this. Chase organized this.”

He gave the California audience a hard time by reminding us, “You gave us Reagan and Nixon.” I shouted out, “We’re sorry.” He replied, “On behalf of America, I accept your apology,” and I bowed to him. This kind of exchange was typical throughout his appearance.

At the end of his talk, he offered some very important recommendations concerning strategy. “Beware of any leftist group that wants to co-opt this. We have the support of the majority.” I take this warning to affirm a non-ideological approach that respects majority opinion, which is important if we want to help empower the 99%. Since we say, “We are the 99%,” the movement would do well to emphasize messages that are simpatico with the mainstream.

Moore also wisely qualified his statement when he said, “This movement is not about getting behind a politician or legislation right now (emphasis added).” He used that qualifying phrase once again as well. Who knows what might work in the future, especially if the Democrats take back the House. After all, many Democratic politicians have given important support to the movement. So it makes sense to begin to develop consensus now about what concrete proposals for action we might present to Congress after the next election.

For now, however, Moore wisely reinforced the tendency throughout the country for Occupiers to focus on banks. Occupy SF, for example, is distributing a large quantity of posters and fliers calling for a mass march on “Move Your Money Out of Banks Day,” Saturday, Nov. 5, 3 pm, urging people to withdraw their money and deposit it in institutions like credit unions.

“We the people want to occupy our economy,” he said, and pointed out that Occupy SF is in the midst of big banks like Bank of America.
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But unless the movement corrects certain flaws in its strategy, it is unlikely to evolve from a cultural phenomenon into an effective political force.

Particular problems include the lack of agreement on its mission and principal methods, the reluctance to delegate responsibility, the resistance to establishing and enforcing rules of behavior, the insistence that anyone can participate in any decision, and giving 11% of the members the power to block a decision.

These conditions enable a minority of members to disrupt the community, create chaos, or establish their own unendorsed agendas. The Occupy communities have not yet demonstrated that they can govern in a safe, orderly, respectful manner.

Yesterday I tried to help address these issues by distributing “Occupy SF: Proposals Concerning Structure.” That proposal has received strong support from several individuals, but I am not optimistic. The disorganization that is driving away potential active supporters is deeply entrenched and there is little agreement about how to get better organized.

The disarray is reflected in the handling of money. Up to $20,000 went missing in Portland. San Francisco has had trouble getting representatives from the Finance Working Group to attend General Assemblies (which has delayed important decisions), no financial statement has been posted, minutes aren’t being posted to the Web, and the administrators of the website aren’t available to work out problems.

New York has collected more than $400,000 and spends about $2,500 per day, mostly on food. But the entire General Assembly that is open to anyone must approve expenditures of more than $100. Getting approval requires one to get a form from the Finance Working Group and then gain approval from a working group, then Finance, then the Facilitation Working Group, and then the General Assembly, where details can be micro-managed at great length.

The underlying problem is hyper-individualism. As stated in the “quick guide to starting a General Assembly” linked to on the New York General Assembly website, the predominant philosophy is “Every person is free to do what they wish.” Or, as one Occupy SF member stated at a meeting that addressed how to respond to disruptive individuals, “We should speak to them as a free, sovereign individual not as a representative of the community enforcing rules.” But no individual is sovereign, holding ultimate power over others.

The facilitator of that meeting, a strong leader in the community, opened by saying that we need group agreements that aren’t policies or rules but are “our expressions of our intent in terms of how to relate to one another that are never formalized (in writing) and are ever evolving.” She also said that these agreements should never be enforced by kicking someone out of the camp, but should merely be tools for communication.

This approach takes self-empowerment to the extreme and undermines community. Instead, the tension between the individual and the community needs to be resolved with a proper balance and mutual respect.

“Occupy: Your Guide to the International Occupation Movement of 2011” distributed by a member of Occupy Santa Cruz reflects this same hyper-individualism. It asserts, “It’s a movement inspired by the advances of communication that have allowed us to function without authority, allowing every voice to at last be weighed truly as equal (emphasis added)…. There is no…governing body.”

But, given that authority is “the right to act in a specified way, delegated from one person or organization to another,” without delegation anyone can have a voice in any decision at any time, which in large groups leads to chaos. Instead, we need to hold accountable those to whom we delegate the authority to make decisions.

The doctrinaire, hyper-individualistic rejection of all authority carries over into the political stance asserted by many occupiers. As the document from Santa Cruz states, “It’s a movement that doesn’t bring a list of demands to the powers-that-be but instead suggests that we can build a different society…. They (“the 1%) don’t matter. We don’t need them. We are the 99% and we are more powerful than they’ll every be.”

In The Guardian, Patrick Kingsley, concluded: “If anything, the camp itself is their demand, and their solution: the stab at an alternative society that at least aims to operate without hierarchy, and with full, participatory democracy http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2011/oct/20/occupy-london-st-pauls-protesters?newsfeed=true.”

But the very sensible “Principles of solidarity – working draft” that was accepted by the New York City General Assembly on September 23rd does not reflect those utopian, hyper-individualistic notions. And that statement declares, “…demands will follow.”

As Jo Freeman described in the 1970 classic “The Tyranny of Structurelessness” a minority of occupiers is trying to hijack the Occupy movement and establish their own hyper-individualistic agenda, without the consent of the movement.

On the New York General Assembly website About page, Deborah Celentano has posted an insightful comment, “Occupy Wall Street – Leaderless, consensus-based participatory democracy and its discontents.” She points out that “direct democracy” practiced on a large scale tends to put
effective power disproportionately in the hands of extroverted, energetic, and charismatic individuals with a knack for persuasion. The opinions of introverts and those of us who need a good deal of time to mull things over tend not to be fully included into the decision-making process. So these people (most of us, I think) must go along, their views systematically underrepresented until the rule of the pushy yammerers becomes too intolerable and they leave. Exit is more powerful than voice if voice is not your strong suit.
Celentano argues that this effort “to persuade Americans to adopt a wholly different and better way to live with one another…is bound to fail. Even if consensus-based, leaderless participatory democracy could work on a grand scale, Americans aren’t interested.”

It is my belief that the Occupy movement could build a political community that reflects the kind of society we seek if we focus on the corruption of government and the concentration of wealth and income. But any effort to meet unmet needs by building a complete alternative society in public squares will be swamped by individuals who are profoundly troubled or seriously antisocial, and will likely soon collapse in frustration.

If we the 99% want the Occupy movement to reflect our convictions, rather than those of the rabid hyper-individualistic minority, we will need to make our voice heard. But that’s hard to do when one must sit through endless meetings seven days a week to have a real voice.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Occupy SF: Be the Change

Contents:
-- Occupy SF: Be the Change
-- Reader’s Comments

The Occupy San Francisco action is holding together, growing somewhat, and displaying a largely peaceful spirit. One large banner sums it up: “Occupy SF = A Living Example of a Better System.”

The kitchen offers free food. The medical clinic provides free health care. The communications center is a high-tech hub. Some 50 people, some of whom do not participate in the General Assembly (GA), sleep there each night. The General Assemblies that I’ve attended have demonstrated the power of collective wisdom, as various individuals suggest solutions and others rapidly build on ideas they like. And yesterday I was relieved to learn that the GA has adopted a “modified consensus” policy that allows for decisions to be made with a 90% super-majority if and when achieving a 100% consensus proves too difficult.

This week I’ve been informally circulating two proposals to integrate the personal and the political. So far, my proposals have received strong support and some helpful input from the individuals, including some de facto leaders, with whom I’ve discussed these ideas.

The first proposal is a “Be the Change Pledge.” It reads:

Occupy SF
Be the Change Pledge
10/20/11 Draft

As a member of the Occupy movement, I hereby commit myself, my life, and
my body to nonviolence. Therefore:

· I will walk and talk in love and nonviolence.
· I will refrain from violence of fist, tongue, and heart.
· I will be courteous with both friend and foe.
· I will avoid both selfishness and power trips.
· I will strive to be in good spiritual and bodily health.

NOTE: Space for name, signature, and date to go here.
Inspired by Dr. Martin Luther King’s Pledge to Nonviolence

The second proposal calls for “Be the Change Support Circles.” It reads:

10/22/11 Draft
Proposed: Be the Change Support Circles

Purpose: To develop a simple, leaderless model for support circles for activists who meet regularly to support one another with their personal development (not a therapy or recovery group).

Primary Method: The organizers invite people with whom they feel compatible to form a member-run group of 6-8 peers who provide a safe, confidential place for open-ended, deep, intimate, open, honest discussions about life’s most challenging questions as they affect one’s own life, thereby helping one another develop as human beings, while respecting differences.

At the first meeting, which I’m willing to facilitate, I suggest the following agenda:
1. A minute of silence for meditation, prayer, or reflection.
2. Confidentiality: Do we agree to keep confidential the information and observations that are shared here today?
3. Check-in: in one word or one sentence, what are you feeling?
4. Personal Development Report: Briefly, in what way do you want to become a better person and how are you working on it?
5. Early Life Experiences: To get to know one another better, respond to some or all of the following questions:
a. What people or events have had the greatest impact in shaping your life?
b. Describe your relationship with each of your parents, both good and bad.
c. What impact have your parents had on your life?
d. What relationships with others have most influenced you? In what ways?
e. What are the experiences, both positive and negative, that had a major impact on you and your life?
f. What are the principles that guide your life?
6. Shall we meet again? If so, what plans shall we make for it? Shall we proceed with using the True North Groups format (upon which this agenda is based) for the next eleven meetings?
7. Evaluation of this meeting.
8. Adjournment.

I’ve offered to facilitate a meeting at my apartment to discuss these proposals and test the support-circle format. Then we may present the Pledge to General Assembly for adoption or we might just circulate it informally, collect the signed pledges, and invite people to consider how to advance those principles. And if the support-circle test works, we could report on that experience and encourage others to form their own.

My sense is that the Occupy movement is a promising cultural phenomenon that at the least may have fruitful political impact indirectly. But, as all of my taxi passengers with whom I’ve discussed Occupy Wall Street have commented, the movement doesn’t have unity around specific “demands.” Some of the occupiers believe that by creating alternative institutions, they will eventually attract enough people to transform society. From this perspective, to push for specific short-term reforms legitimizes the existing system and achieving specific gains risks people becoming complacent and dropping out following a victory.

Myself, I still believe in evolutionary revolution. Steady, incremental reforms can eventually lead to fundamental transformation, as a chrysalis becomes a butterfly. If the participants in the movement have unity behind a long-term vision, they can cultivate the commitment that is needed to assure that victories don’t lead to complacency. And victories can elicit greater participation from the mainstream, which is critical.

Whether the Occupy movement evolves from culture to politics remains to be seen. In the meantime, I’ve very encouraged to discover so much support for “be the change,” including a commitment to ongoing personal development. Hopefully Occupy SF can develop some user-friendly structures that enhance that commitment.

I don’t know if the verbal enthusiasm expressed so far will translate into action, for the immediate challenges posed by the occupation are pressing. But that is always the case with activism. The question is whether activists will consistently pause briefly from their outer focus to look within and reflect openly and intimately with trusted peers.

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Reader’s Comments

Re: [wadesweekly] Why Compassionate Politics


Hi Wade. Good to hear from you. Yes, feel free to repost anything I wrote to your group.

I do sense that somehow – this general drive to something like “compassionate politics” is becoming critically important. Maybe it’s the kind of leadership – maybe the only kind of leadership – that can pull us all towards not only a “kinder and gentler” politics – but also a more holistic and inclusive and “integral” politics.

Here’s a link to an emerging movement that is grounded in interfaith, and moving towards what I think is your kind of compassionate politics: http://www.groundswell-movement.org/

Here’s a theological article I came across yesterday – that might have some relevance – though, yes, it’s a big stretch. But it does point towards a kind of underlying universal framework that might open to every kind of “diversity” – as per something like a Matthew Fox theology. Karen Armstrong’s vision might not extend this far – but maybe interfaith should be reaching in this direction. I personally think it should,

--Bruce Schuman
http://sharedpurpose.net/home/profile.cfm?tq=579379&login=100803&cpid=100000
My reply: Thanks much for the references. I particularly liked the Chardin essay. However, so far as I could tell, neither the groundswell site, the shared purpose site, nor Chardin explicitly affirm the intentional development of "caring progressive communities dedicated to both personal growth and political action," as I summed up my main concern in the "Why Compassionate Politics" post to which you initially responded. I'm still looking for a project with that kind of commitment.
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Re: [wadesweekly] A Fascinating Discovery: True North Groups

I have pretty much finished looking through the True North Groups book. I'm glad to see your feedback on the Occupations. You would be happy to know that L.A. yesterday was fabulous. Of course, I'm not 'living' there, but I will be going down again soon. Today L.A. is filled with bicycles.

Here is what I wrote yesterday:

I just returned from Occupy L.A. It was an active and peaceful gathering, a beautiful tent city. I have 71 photos. I saw only a couple of police, a man and a woman, walking down the Spring Street sidewalk. They responded when I said, "Hello, Officers."

Many creative signs. Not a lot of young children. Plenty of activity with sign toters crossing the streets at the lights, and huge honking responses from the autos that were stopped. I held a peace sign which also said: Congress~~Pass the American Jobs Act and fix our infrastructure!

The stage became active at 1 p.m. with scheduled activities every hour. I will send my Facebook or website link when my photos finish loading. One sign gives the scheduled agenda. I could say a lot more, but my photos give the true flavor. I believe enough of this can get the American Jobs Act passed. Those speaking against these peaceful demonstrations look like idiots.

Finally, our YOUTH have stepped forward, and we can rest assured that WE HAVE TRAINED THEM WELL. I'm proud to be 70 years old. Did I ever think I would need to be doing this again? No, I didn't. But it's an honor--the least I can do for my country!

I encourage everyone to participate in the nearest Occupation.

--Jane Anne Jeffries

My reply: I look forward to hearing more about what you think about the book. Thanks for the report on LA. Sounds great.

Her reply: I have been a part of groups for a major portion of my life. Because I am a holistic life coach, most of my work is with individuals now. I have no desire to lead a group, but I would accept membership in any I could attend where I think my presence would do some good.

I have worked with Project NatureConnect since 1994 and use nature as healer, along the lines of eco-psychology, for most of my work. People soon learn to heal themselves, using Mother Nature.

Mostly what I have gotten from the book is the realization that I would not want to be a group leader. :)

My reply: I hear you. If and when you have further thoughts, I'd be interested.
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I have just obtained this book on line and await its arrival. I hope to begin group work with many of your observations and challenges on the table. My efforts have been dissatisfying in the past.
I look forward to a continued conversation. Just checking to see that this is the best vehicle to correspond with you. Do you use any other social networking sites such as Facebook or Linked In? I would wish to share your work with others and these may be easier to send such links.

With best,
--John Cloud
My reply: It's great to hear from you again. I apologize for being so slow to reply. I had a sister visiting for a week, which really disrupted my schedule. Thanks for the kind words.

I look forward to hearing more about what you think of the book and what you do with it.

On Facebook, I'm http://www.facebook.com/wadeleehudson
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Hi,Wade. Tthanks so much for the invitation to join a True North Group. While I do want to continue working with you, I am not really in a position to begin something like this.....It asks for, and deserves, a continual commitment and at this juncture I am not able to do that. I hope you will keep me on your list, and that others are able to join you in this important effort.
We had a profound experience as part of the occupation of Freedom Plaza in DC and I hope to go back in November. There is something historic building in this country and it is a rich opportunity to be a part of it.

My very best to you, always----Sherri Maurin
My reply: I'm glad to hear that you had a profound experience at Freedom Plaza in DC. I wish that I could have been there. Something certainly is building in this country.

I really haven't invited anyone to join a True North Group per se. But I am interested in something along that line. Perhaps a "Be the Change Support Circle." I still see the need to develop a model that others could use to form progressive member-run groups dedicated to both personal development and political activism, for I know of none in operation at present. Please let me know if you are or become familiar with any.

Her reply: My friend, Dennis Rivers, is developing an eco-bodhi group to frame it from a more spiritual base, and it has been very moving.......Others are forming groups of support around the occupations....

My reply: Good to hear. Can you help get me written materials about those groups, including their statement of purpose (mission) and the format (structure) that they use?
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Re: [wadesweekly] Occupy SF General Assembly


Great note, thanks for sharing.
--Freddi Fredrickson

My reply: I appreciate the feedback and trust all is well with you and yours.

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Appreciate the weekly updates and was shocked to learn not too many Latinos are involved there in the bay area.

P.S. I agree with the taxi driver too...

Greetings from Dayton, Ohio
-- Esteban Ortiz
My reply: I very much appreciate your comments all the way from Dayton. It's very helpful. Hopefully more Latinos will get involved eventually. Still driving,
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I have been attending NYC and am delighted to know that you will have a crucible to bring to bear all you have learned and shared.

Let there always be moments of inclusiveness in all we say and do. There are amazing and beautiful people just outside the door of this movement and we must let them all in.

Keep in touch
--John Cloud
My reply: Glad to hear you’ve been able to participate in NYC. Have you gone to General Assembly meetings? What do you think of the 99% Declaration working group https://sites.google.com/site/the99percentdeclaration/? What are the prospects for something like that proposal for a National Assembly to be adopted? Have you been able to bring to bear all that you have learned?

As for my own contributions here, I’m talking with folks about adopting a nonviolence pledge. We shall see. More on that later.
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Thank you for sharing your experience with me. Makes me very glad that you have actually participated and had a personal experience with OWS in San Francisco.
I keep following in on computer as many of my friends and we are doing what is possible within our means. Mainly to send out as much information as possible, keep it circulating and alive in people´s lives and minds, to awaken them to this amazing process that is being born and living in our present times. Many people are still unaware of this awakening and we are doing our best to help them to wake up to it.
Thank you for staying in touch and when you get back to Mexico let me know.

All the best
Anosha Ossdon
My reply: Sure thing. My pleasure. Glad you appreciated it. My visits to the site prior to the General Assembly and the assembly itself have been very rewarding. Thanks again for your emails from Mexico. I’ll be back in Tepoztlan Nov. 30 and look forward to seeing you again.
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Yeh, wade, it is happening big time. I’m in nyc at OWS,,, amazing action lets hope it keeps up.

--Marvin Surkin
My reply: Glad to hear you’ve been able to participate in NYC. Have you gone to General Assembly meetings? What do you think of the 99% Declaration working group https://sites.google.com/site/the99percentdeclaration/? What are the prospects for something like that proposal for a National Assembly to be adopted? What are your overall impressions now?
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I'd like to discuss w/ you the "Occupy Movement" and where it might go from here. Loved your report on the GA last weekend.

Richard Gross
My reply: Glad you like the report. In terms of where it might go from here, Occupy Protesters' One Demand: A New New Deal—Well, Maybe covers that issue. Here's one possibility: The Steps to Non-Violent Revolution and the Convening of a National General Assembly.

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Thank You Wade, this is a very interesting news. Greetings.
--Alba Rodriguez
My reply: Good to hear. I appreciate the feedback.
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Re: [wadesweekly] Comments from Readers

Do not and did not intend harshness, so apologies if taken that way. Looking for clarifications, which you supplied.

As time goes on, OWS is getting more coverage, albeit still condescending. That may (hopefully) change...

It remains to be seen what change will come from it. Confrontation has a dismal track record.

Again, I appreciate your time and attention.

--Gavino Villapiano
My reply: I'm glad the clarifications helped.
Yes, it will be interesting to see what further change will come from OWS.
It's already had a positive cultural impact.
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Re: [wadesweekly] Gandhi, Self-Improvement, and Mutual Support

And what if that potential is not realized? What if it does not garner support from elites?

When does it become time to consider other approaches? I ask that entirely honestly....

--Gavino Villapiano
My reply: Good question. It's hard for me to generalize. In terms of (rarely) resorting to violence, I'd say that it would include an estimation of chances for success without too many counter-productive side effects. And how hopeless nonviolent options are.
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Re: [wadesweekly] A Counter Meditation

I don't agree with your statement on cooptation, but I will think about it.

As for space, it's unhip, clearly. And who wouldn't prefer a more straightforward route?

Bout the straightforward route has been failing badly. Perhaps OWS might turn the tide. I am as unconvinced of that as you are regarding space. If it works, great.

But if not, do we continue Quixotically?

Despite your reaction, I continue to assert that we need to find another way...

Gavino Villapiano
My reply: One definition of co-opt is "to take or assume for one's own use; appropriate." That seems acceptable.

Another is "to neutralize or win over (an independent minority, for example) through assimilation into an established group or culture." Such assimilation can result in real progress, as happened with the Black, women's and gay movements. A steady succession of such improvements can eventually lead to more fundamental structural change.

We need many other ways.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Occupy SF General Assembly

Contents:
-Occupy SF General Assembly
-True North Groups Excerpts

Occupy SF General Assembly

Since 1964 I’ve participated in many meetings similar to the October 15 Occupy SF General Assembly, the daily governing body for the San Francisco action. But this one was different. Never before, as I remember, have I experienced a meeting with so many participants that was both so mellow and so productive.

With 150 participants, including old friends Roma Guy, Diane Jones, Dave Whittaker, and Phil Mastrocola, the nonviolent spirit in the air was inspiring. Mostly but not entirely white, participants were calm and well grounded. Differences were expressed respectfully. Consensus emerged smoothly. The group is organized in a non-bureaucratic way that empowers, with a balance between spontaneity and structure. Women and people of color were major contributors.

When a topic needed extensive discussion, poker cards were distributed to those who wanted to speak and speakers with the next card (starting with ace) were recognized, which helped maintain order and assure that the facilitator was not selecting favorites.

Though some used a bullhorn, when needed or preferred others used the People’s Mic: the speaker utters a phrase or short sentence and others repeat it until everyone hears. This refreshing method results in shorter statements that are less emotional than is the case when long-winded speakers get wound up.

At the outset, the floor was open for announcements, with a 30-second time limit. Everyone honored that limit.

Decisions were made by asking for a thumb up to indicate agreement or thumbs sideway to “stand aside” (abstain). Participants could block a decision, though no one did.

Early on, the facilitator reported on decisions from the previous General Assembly: 1) The primary campground will be moved from the Federal Building to Justin Herman Plaza; 2) The route for the October 15 march was adopted; 3) Bail for an occupier still in jail will be collected; 4) The website should feature Occupy SF information.

Working Group reports followed. The sign-making group reported on their plans. The direct-action group urged everyone to make the march peaceful and family-friendly with no alcohol or illegal drugs. The facilitation group reported that they meet two-hours prior to each General Assembly. The outreach group announced their next meeting. The Police-City Hall relations group reported that they plan to shift to a more proactive community-building focus.

The facilitator then asked for proposed agenda items. Four surfaced. The facilitator then asked for a show of hands to prioritize those options.

The first item concerned raising bail for an occupier named Purple who was still in jail. Some questions and differences of opinion about how to proceed were raised and quickly settled.

The question about when and whether to move to a larger site was tabled. The sense of the meeting was that we should wait until Justin Herman Plaza is full before moving to a larger site.

Then a lively discussion ensued about whether women who want to do so should meet separately in order to foster empowerment. Without acrimony, some men expressed discomfort with being excluded. One said that if there were such a meeting, he’d like to observe in order to learn. But after a 15-minute discussion, the sense of the meeting seemed clearly in support of identity-based groups temporarily meeting separately as part of a unified community. One Latino summed up how distinctions are not dichotomies and separating temporarily need not necessarily lead to division. At the end, a time and place for a women’s meeting was established.

Then a member of the communications group asked for time to read a just-completed letter to the Mayor about the plan to move to Justin Herman Plaza. The intent behind the letter, which the author planned to send as an individual rather than as an official representative, was to maintain cooperative communication channels. The letter was quite articulate and elicited loud applause. One speaker recommended sending it as an official statement, but the sense of the meeting was that there was no need to do so.

Then a series of speakers argued, “Cooperation is collaboration.” They insisted, “We have the power,” and objected to any such communication with the authorities. Others disagreed and supported the letter, with some modifications. During that discussion, I used the bullhorn to state:
My name is Wade. I’ve been an activist for 40 or 50 years and I drive a taxi. Driving taxi helps me to keep my finger on the pulse of ordinary people. And my sense is that we have lots of support from the general public. But if you want to get more support, it’s important to keep it peaceful. Cooperating to some degree does not require selling out or becoming submissive or deferential. You can still stay true to your principles. After the Rodney King verdict, my passengers were angry at the criminal justice system. But after the riots began, they were angry at the rioters. Refusing to cooperate undermines our power. We can stand firm without trying to kick ass.
My statement elicited considerable applause and the next speaker said, “Like the cab driver said,” and amplified the point, affirming, “Cooperation is not capitulation.” The author announced that he would modify the letter and proceed.

Toward the end, tears of joy began welling up in my eyes.

Before leaving, I inquired about the identity of the Spanish-speaking man who pledged to bring more Latinos to the action (I was told he was an unaffiliated individual), thanked one of the facilitators for doing a good job, and said good-bye to Phil, who expressed appreciation for my drawing on my authority as a cab driver (“Like they say, cab drivers know everything.”).

I left with a smile on my face, looking forward to some solitude, the spa, a great massage, and a very good movie, Drive. My “day of rest.”

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True North Groups: A Powerful Path to Personal and Leadership Development
By Bill George and Doug Baker
Excerpts

Preface

True North Groups comprise six to eight peers who meet on a regular basis to discuss the important questions of their lives and to support each other during difficult times….

We believe there is a unique role for personal, intimate groups that differs from the multitude of groups formed for specific purposes. By providing a safe place for deep, intimate discussions about life’s most challenging questions, True North Groups enable us to become fully human and more fully alive, awakening to the enormous possibilities within each of us….

This book is written for you, if you are interested in forming such a group. Or perhaps you want to enable your current group to have deeper or more meaningful discussions about the vital questions of life….

Introduction: Finding Depth and Intimacy in Your Life

We need people around us to whom we can look for support and advice, who can help us develop as human beings….

The challenges we face these days are so great that we cannot rely entirely on ourselves, our communities, or our organizations to support us and help us stay on track….

We call these groups True North Groups because they help us follow our True North, (which) represents what is most important to us in life: our beliefs, our most cherished values, our passions and motivations, and the sources of satisfaction in our lives. True North is the orienting point that keeps us on track as human beings and as leaders. It represents who we are at our deepest level….

In the early years, they helped me recognize that I was trying so hard to get ahead that I was behaving very differently in my work and community than at home and in my personal life. That led me to “decompartmentalize” my life by attempting to be the same person at home, at work, and in the community—with less façade and more authenticity….

The counsel and support I received are not unusual for friends to provide, but the variety of perspectives that improves the judgment of our group and its collective wisdom lends the power of numbers to the advice….

Unless we have people around us with whom we can be completely honest and open, it is surprising how alone we can feel in our work, and even at home….

As one interviewee observed, these groups are a place to get frequent, 360-degree feedback from people whose motives you trust completely….

In recent decades, opportunities for personal development have proliferated,… While these vehicles provide opportunities for personal development, they do not address the gnawing need we have for depth and intimacy in our interactions with others….

Chapter One: True North Groups

At various times your True North Group will function as a nurturer, a grounding rod, a truth teller, and a mirror. At other times the group functions as a challenger or an inspirer. At their best, the members of your group serve each other as caring coaches and thoughtful mentors….

The trust of your group enables all members to be open and intimate, building on your shared commitment to maintain strict confidentiality.

In spite of significant differences in our faiths and beliefs, we have a common commitment to sharing our lives openly, respecting our differences, and discussing the challenges and difficulties we face….

Tom Schaefer: “It provides a moral compass, a way of checking on my sense of what’s right and wrong.”

We have a brief check-in to enable people to bring up anything significant in their lives. Then one of us initiates discussion of the program. Responsibility for leading the program is rotated….

Our group prefers having our members take responsibility for facilitating, to ensure everyone feels equal responsibility for the group….

On a regular basis, we take a check to be sure that everyone in the group is feeling satisfied and fulfilled. Periodically, we ask ourselves, How are we doing? Are we getting out of our heads and into our hears and souls?…

Chuck Denny: “We talk about our values…. Do we stay true to them under stress? It’s introspective, not just intellectual. What are we doing to make society better? How do we allocate time between ourselves, our family, and society?”

John Cunningham: “At some point in their lives everybody asks the big questions like Why am I here? What is life all about? What is my purpose?”

Ron Vantine: “We all have more questions than answers.”

Jonathan Morgan: “The group provides a venue for discussing existential questions and life’s mysteries that stretches the mind almost to the breaking point.”

We don’t think we are different from any eight people who genuinely want to explore together the important questions of their lives. What is crucial is the willingness of each of us to share openly, join in the give-and-take of a peer group, and listen in a nonjudgmental way to the challenges others face….

Small groups are certainly not a new phenomenon. We learned from our field research that participation in small groups is gaining strength… These groups are affinity groups whose members come together around a common set of interests or a common concern such as chemical-dependency, life-threatening illness, or loss of loved ones….

One way of categorizing small groups is by their degree of openness and intimacy. At the base of the pyramid are travel, running, cooking, or bridge groups, and so forth. People come together in these groups for an activity rather than for personal sharing. To the extent that there are personal discussions, it is independent of or incidental to the group’s activities. At the next level are book groups, study groups, and company groups that have intellectual discussions that occasionally delve into personal matters….

On the third level are Bible study groups, prayer groups, grief groups, therapy groups, Alcoholic Anonymous, and twelve-step groups that are affiliated around a particular purpose and share deeply about that area, including discussions of personal feelings, convictions, and beliefs. Many prayer groups and Bible study groups offer their members opportunities for examination of their religious beliefs and provide strong bonding around share values.

True North Groups, as described in this book, provide a forum for deep, intimate discussions of all aspects of one’s life, not only matters of belief and faith. These may include personal issues, such as family problems, leadership and career concerns, or healthy living, as well as convictions about a wide range of subjects. They are fairly unique in providing a safe place for confidential discussions of highly personal subjects across the full range of life’s issues, but without any particular affinity….

Malcom Gladwell…explains that megachurces adopted the cellular model because they found that “the small group was an extraordinary vehicle of commitment.”

True North Groups are not built around affinity models that provide the glue that brings them together and gives their members opportunities for sharing common interests. Our research confirmed that no prior bond is required for a True North Group; in fact, a diverse set of strangers is just as effective as preexisting affinity among members. They often have no particular connection except for the longing for affiliation, openness, and commitment to personal growth and leadership development.

In offering opportunities for deep discussions about challenges people face, True North Groups provide a safe place where members can discuss personal issues they do not feel they can raise elsewhere—often not even with their closest family members—and can explore questions about the meaning and purpose of life….

NOTES: For more about the book, see A Fascinating Discovery: True North Groups

If you want to discuss this book with me and/or other online, on the phone, or in person, please let me know.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

A Fascinating Discovery: True North Groups

Contents:
· A Fascinating Discovery: True North Groups
· Occupy Wall Street: A Promising Beginning
· Recommended Links
· Comments from Readers

A Fascinating Discovery: True North Groups

True North Groups: A Powerful Path to Personal and Leadership Development by Bill George and Doug Baker is a remarkable book that presents a simple, well-tested method for conducting member-run, open-ended, peer-support groups that enable members to support one another in their self-defined personal growth efforts.

For thirty-five years, George and Baker have facilitated the formation of hundreds of True North Groups that have enabled participants to share their most important experiences, generally meeting for 75 minutes weekly or four hours monthly. Now George and Baker offer a user-friendly manual that any group of well functioning individuals can use to start their own support team.

Unless we get frozen, human beings are social creatures who constantly evolve through their interactions with others. Alone, we are limited. We need the benefit of others’ opinions and knowledge as well as their support and encouragement.

Two minds are better than one and several are better than two. Hearing multiple viewpoints and giving and receiving open, honest, compassionate attention from others are invaluable.

Of particular value is support from peers – people we consider to be our equal who understand us due to similar experiences. As we mature, we learn and benefit from peers more than we do from authorities.

Making decisions about key transitions is often difficult. Staying true to one’s core without being seduced by ego-driven desires is not easy. Truly good friends can help us be the same person publicly that we are privately.

Yet in the modern world individuals experience intimacy with ever fewer people. Many have only their spouse or partner. Many others have no one.

The forces of modernization that produce this isolation are relentless. Obsessions with work and play overwhelm deeper impulses. Being honest jeopardizes climbing the ladder of success and can even threaten job security. People learn to be inauthentic and carry those habits with them throughout life

Finding greater intimacy generally requires conscious, intentional effort as well as building trust. Rooted in strict confidentiality, the True North approach seems to offer a great way to do so.

The True North approach does not involve authority figures training others with some pre-determined agenda. That hierarchical authority-based model fosters dependency, takes time to train the trainers, and is less responsive to the needs of the participants.

The horizontal peer model, on the other hand, empowers. It asks each individual to define his or her own needs, maximizes peer-to-peer learning, and can spread quickly.

For some time now I’ve been interested in finding or developing a simple support-group format that progressive political activists (including those who devote very little time to activism) could employ quickly and easily to help them be honest and open with another about their self-improvement efforts.

In addition to being inherently valuable, a project of this sort could be an organizing tool. It could enable progressive organizers to help grow activist communities by serving unmet needs. Historically, progressive organizers have connected with their constituency by addressing material needs. They could do the same with nonmaterial needs.

Many progressive political activists, it seems to me, could benefit from participating regularly in a small, member-run, peer-support group rooted in their common experience with activism.

The Christian Right gets it. As Malcom Gladwell reported in “The Cellular Church,” they’ve used this approach effectively in their community organizing. As one participant reported, “I don't give because I believe in religious charity. I give because I belong to a social structure that enforces an ethic of giving.” Although “enforcement” may not be proper, commitments and accountability are surely valuable.

Now, thanks to the immensely valuable Berret-Koehler Publishers newsletter, I’ve discovered that much of Corporate America gets it too. Many corporate leaders realize that long-term effectiveness depends on personal development.

But so far, few progressive political activists have indicated much interest in integrating the personal and the political. Perhaps the success demonstrated by the practical, step-by-step True North approach can encourage them to take a closer look at the possibility of using intentional peer support to enrich their lives and strengthen their work.

I look forward to discussing this possibility with people who read the book.

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Occupy Wall Street: A Promising Beginning

The brilliance of the evolving Occupy Wall Street movement has been rooted in a simple principle: participatory democracy. The participants themselves have been deciding how to proceed. And as their numbers grow, they’re wisely developing bottom-up structures to delegate responsibility.

The original Adbusters call for people “to flood into lower Manhattan [on September 17], set up tents, kitchens, peaceful barricades and occupy Wall Street” proposed that the action focus on “one simple demand – a presidential commission to separate money from politics.”

The demonstrators who took to the streets on September 17 wisely ignored that old-school demand. Instead, at first, they merely echoed outrage about economic injustice. Most of the early messages from Occupy Wall Street were “anti-capitalist,” which concerned me, for I don’t believe that an attack on capitalism per se is either correct or tactical. And failing to have agreement on this issue at the start can lead to sectarian splits later.

Then on September 29 Occupy Wall Street adopted their “Declaration of the Occupation of New York City.". Though some of the language struck me as imprecise, overall the statement seemed to go beyond ideology to articulate concrete, widely embraced grievances without resorting to abstractions about “capitalism.”

Within a few days, Occupy Wall Street began getting strong support, including endorsements from labor unions, MoveOn, and the American Dream Movement spearheaded by Van Jones.

However, I still felt that the action needed to focus on a winnable demand in order to build momentum with successive victories. As I told a correspondent, “Hopefully they will, eventually.”

Then I discovered that Occupy Wall Street has announced that they are working on three more official documents: “1) A declaration of demands. 2) Principles of Solidarity 3) Documentation on how to form your own Direct Democracy Occupation Group.” I hope that at least one of those demands is winnable in the short-term.

I would prefer that this movement more fully embrace the principles of nonviolence affirmed by Gandhi and King, including the reliance on love rather than hate, the resolve to avoid “violence of the heart,” and to seek “reconciliation, not victory” by appealing to the conscience of opponents.

But when Jones declared, “No more listening to the titans on Wall Street,” he failed to follow Gandhi and King. Reconciliation requires listening.

Likewise the October2011 action in D.C. strayed from true nonviolence (as I understand it) when they repeated Mario Savio’s famous declaration, “You've got to put your bodies upon the gears and upon the wheels, upon the levers, upon all the apparatus, and you've got to make it stop.” That formulation encourages physical force.

The October2011 website, in its “’American Autumn’ Will Depend on People, Not Parties (We will not be co-opted),” also featured an extensive attack on other progressives for being too reformist. That kind of infighting undermines alliances and is an example of the arrogance that progressives need to overcome.

Rather than trying to de-legitimize “liberals,” the October2011 action could just as easily say, “That approach is fine for those who so choose. But we take a different path.”

But social change is messy. Many different approaches are inevitable and can be helpful. My notions about what is justified and effective may well be wrong.

It’s an exciting time. President Obama is giving credibility and great attention to tax fairness (as I felt he would all along). The Senate Democrats recently sharpened the issue with their proposed millionaire’s surtax. And the Occupy Wall Movement is largely nonviolent and engaging in the kind of grassroots action that is necessary in order to make steady progress, which can eventually lead to profound transformation.

As Bob Dylan says, “We’ll just have to see how it goes.” And nudge it along as best we can.

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Recommended Links

The Left Declares Its Independence

Occupy Wall Street: Why So Many Demands for Demands?

The Elizabeth Warren Quote Every American Needs To See

New Book Explores How Millennials Shape American Life, Culture

Al Jazeera English: Live Stream

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Comments from Readers

[Re my email: Why do you think folks are daunted by the notion of “peer counseling,” or peer support with regard to self-improvement?]

I think it ties to our lack of trust in one another. Many have had bad experiences with professional counselors, so I can I can understand folks being reluctant. Just a guess.

--Rhonda Magee
My reply: Where does that lack of trust come from? My suspicion is that it relates to how our desire to climb the ladder of success leads us to be dishonest.

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I'm so grateful for your work and will be more involved when I have time.

--Jane Anne Jeffries

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Good responses!

--Leonard Roy Frank

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Wade, I'm sorry to have missed your meeting on Saturday, 10/1. I continue to be interested, however, and would like to be notified of future meetings.

If I am not very responsive to your posts, it is because I have trouble slowing down to take the time to absorb them. I guess I could work on this in your group.

--Ruth Lang

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[Re: [wadesweekly] Looking for Holistic Political Organizations and my email in which I said, “I find myself generally aligned with your worldview, though I differ on some points. In your statement of values, you affirm ‘We encourage individuals to act to improve their personal well being,’ but I see nothing about the need for intentional mutual support in those efforts.”]

Hi Wade... Thanks, and I understand about slow responses. I'm normally quite a bit behind myself.

Since we last talked, my wife and I have launched our latest project, Coalitions of Mutual Endeavor . It is the culmination of our last decades worth of
research and activism, and pretty much ties everything together. We did a West Coast
workshop tour this past June, and it was well received.

The synopsis is building coalitions to create the critical mass necessary for critical
change. While initially targeting environmental, social justice, economic equity, and
participatory democracy groups, we expressly reach out beyond the choir using
relationship building tools and best practices from organizational change. Our guiding
axiom is that true justice cannot exist without sustainability, and without justice there will
be no peace. We're using sustainability as the common goal for big-tent coalition efforts,
and the Earth Charter as an internationally vetted set of shared values. Rather than
focusing on any one political party, we're looking at how this can inform an independent
political movement, not only in developing candidates and platforms, but creating the
critical mass to get them elected.

The coalition project itself is currently working on getting national organizations to join,
and lining up workshops around the country. I'll be participating in the Association for the
Study of Peak Oil annual conference in DC in early November and working on gathering
more support there.

Awareness raising is pretty instrumental in building critical mass, but I'm putting most of
my time right now into finishing up my book "Connecting the Dots: Reversing Our
Handbasket to Hell" to use as background material so workshop attendees don't suffer
from information overload and we can concentrate on gaining familiarity with the tools
and alternative projects to business as usual that communities can start on.

--Dave Ewoldt
My reply: Dave, it looks like you've been doing some great work. I particularly like the systems frame and the quest for broad coalitions. However on your site I did not see an affirmation of the need for an explicit commitment to self-improvement and mutual support with regards to those efforts. Social systems are reinforced by individual actions. Transforming those systems therefore requires us to undo internalized oppression.
Carry it on,
Wade

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Re: [wadesweekly] A Counter Meditation http://wadeleehudson.blogspot.com/2011/03/meditation.html.

A Counter Meditation:
…Thus I proffer a solution - ramp down defense spending while you ramp up the civilian space program.... Resistance is futile, as it were, and plays into their hands. Our most expedient way to break open some chances for ourselves, is to get them to convert our National Industrial Policy from War-all-the-time to To-Infinity-and-Beyond, with us as partners….

-- Gavino Villapiano
My reply: … can't see the space program being an effective focus for organizing.

Gaviano’s reply: … Overt resistance and demonstration - even if taking such innocuous or rather non-violent and ostensibly non-threatening forms as electoral politics, self improvement and "better idea generation" - is so time worn and predictable now that it is effectively co-opted and subverted. …the Space idea...has a great chance of settling into the brains of those who pull the strings.... Perhaps the ideal organization is not organizing...

My reply: Cooptation can be a step forward. I remain unconvinced about the revolutionary potential of a space program.

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Re: [wadesweekly] Gandhi, Self-Improvement, and Mutual Support

These are good points all. But in regards non-violence, I'd like you to help me get around my biggest doubt.

To some extent, advocating non-violence to progressive people is "preaching to the choir". In general (not always, certainly), progressives are resonant with non-violent principles, and do try to "be the change they'd like to see".

But what about the non-progressives who have no compunction regarding the use of violence? Is it not they who need to be convinced not to use violence?

How many times have we heard, of late, of non-violent groups being infiltrated and incited to violence? How many times have we seen violence occur at non-violent protests and gatherings that actually is done by agents provocateurs but blamed on the peaceful demonstrators?

Mass non-violent protest and demonstration is designed to appeal to the larger community's conscience. "The whole world's watching!" But if it is made to appear that the non-violent demonstrators "caused" or "initiated" violence, then support for the demonstrations is undermined.

I'd like to hear your comments regarding how we reach the forces of repression and get them to voluntarily turn off the firehoses of violence...

--Gavino Villapiano
My reply: Your reply is not responsive to my essay. My point was that not even most advocates of nonviolence fully practice the principles articulated by Gandhi. Concerning your point about the threats posed by violent State actors, I agree that nonviolent tactics don't always work. I am not a pacifist. With King, I support actions like sending troops into Little Rock in 1956. I support NATO in Libya. But I believe that Occupy Wall Street demonstrates that nonviolent action holds great potential for gaining support from elites.

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Re: [wadesweekly] Comments from Readers

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[Another correspondent asked:] "How about the police riot in NYC and the killing of Troy Davis???"
[Wade replied]: “It’s revolting.”
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Sir:

I appreciate your thoughts and ideas, but honestly, you evaded the question. You know as well as I that the questioner, whoever it might have been (it wasn't I), was attempting to get you to reflect on how your proposal would deal with the issue when violence is exacted on the non-violent. Please excuse the label, but you acted like a politician - you dodged the issue.

I, too, asked you to address the same issue, in a separate email, worded differently, and so far, nothing from you.

Which is actually fine - we all have lives, and I'd rather get a reflective answer than a pat or dismissive one.

But the answer you gave that commenter was both pat and dismissive.

Peaceful resistance and civil disobedience work when there exists a conscience to appeal to. It worked in India in the 1940s and in the Deep South in the early 60s, and even in regards Vietnam in the late 60s-early 70s to some extent, largely if not completely because there was media attention focused on it, which media attention also had a component of conscience.

With the ascendance of corporately controlled media to an extent much larger than before, acts of peaceful resistance, protest and civil disobedience are merely ignored.

Granted, events such as Bloody Sunday 1905 ultimately resulted in the downfall of those who sicked the Cossacks on the peaceful crowds. But at the cost of the demonstrators lives. The same can be said of Kent State, the thousands of Indians of 1947, the monks who self immolated in Saigon, etc.

It was you who decided to propose such action to a larger group; the responsibility is thus on you to publicly, to the group, address this very real problem with what you propose - or to be honest with us and mention that the first wave tend to become martyrs.

--Gavino Villapiano
My reply: You may be able to read minds, but I try to avoid that effort. I did not try to read between the lines of his question, but rather replied to what he asked. It seems to me that his question may or may not have been the same as yours. I apologize for being a bit slow to reply to your question. But I find your criticism of me to be unduly harsh and as I said when I did respond, I believe that Occupy Wall Street has not been "merely ignored."

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Comments from Readers

In response to “Gandhi, Self-Improvement, and Mutual Support”:

Wade, I appreciated your blog post. Again, I agree completely. It is one of the reasons that I teach contemplative approaches to lawyering at USF and am co-facilitating a course on interpersonal dynamics at CIIS. So again, I support these efforts. It is difficult but valuable, time-consuming but critical. Folks may be daunted by the notion of peer or lay counseling, or of group work that sounds like group counseling. But even if only five folks show, five folks who are committed can accomplish much.

I am reminded of a spiritual activist I met at Fetzer last year, who shared these views, but you are the only person I've seen actually take a step forward and try to get folks meeting together. Doing so is itself revolutionary.

Rhonda Magee
My reply: I very much appreciate your words of support.

Why do you think folks are daunted by the notion of “peer counseling,” or peer support with regard to self-improvement?

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This is excellent!

It adds a new and vital dimension to political organizing.

Hopefully the October 2011 Movement and other groups will make self-improvement/ mutual support a key element in their programs for change.
My reply: Good to hear. Yes, I thought this essay was a breakthrough for me personally, especially concerning being able to clarify why I believe an open-ended approach is valuable.

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I don’t really understand (or "get") the paragraph starting: “Perhaps one reason for the general reluctance to fostering self-development is the risk of oppressive authoritarianism.”
My reply: Yes, that paragraph was poorly worded. I was speculating about how “authorities” sometimes try to mold others to fit pre-determined notions. Many people understandably resist those efforts, or anything that smells like such an effort.

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In “One way to proceed constructively is to insist that each individual define his or her own self-improvement goal,” you say, "insist." Maybe "suggest" instead?

My reply: Yes, maybe so. I’m not sure. What I was trying to get at is that we can refuse to tell others what they should do. I need to think about that language more.

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Thanks, Wade. Well written, great points and with good new references.

My reply: Great to hear from you again. When you comment, I feel I’ve written a particularly good piece.

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How about the police riot in NYC and the killing of Troy Davis???
My reply: “It’s revolting.”
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Regarding " to my knowledge no progressive political organization in the United States intentionally helps their members support one another in open-ended, self-determined personal-growth efforts." See http://www.somaticsandtrauma.org/ and particularly http://www.somaticsandtrauma.org/social.html

My reply: Yes, they do very good work and do have a social-justice think tank. But they themselves are not a political organization that mobilizes its members to impact public policy in the name of the organization.

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I finally took the time to read your blog and recent emails.

Thanks for the resources books True North Groups and Join the Club. Would like to hear what u think bout them.

I have some thought re your posts and hope to comment, re the idea of support for "self improvement". I was just thinking about this idea not much in regard to political activism but re what I call our ability to make the world a better place thru involvement with people things etc in our community, could be the act of going to a nursing home with your pet to spread joy and comfort. The support we get from a group/ partners etc toward personal goals leads ultimately to this greater capacity to do good. Make sense?

My reply: I very much agree that peer support can aid with regard to service to humanity in the way that you talk about. My focus at the moment is encouraging political activists to explicitly commit to providing mutual support with regard to self-improvement efforts. I love those books and will report on them further in the near future.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Gandhi, Self-Improvement, and Mutual Support

The lack of commitment to self-improvement among progressive political organizations in the United States mystifies me. Not even Gandhian advocates of non-violence reflect the personal-growth principles articulated by Gandhi, which has been summarized as: “Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

The “Principles, Practices and Beliefs” section of the wikipedia entry on Gandhi begins:
Gandhi dedicated his life to the wider purpose of discovering truth, or Satya. He tried to achieve this by learning from his own mistakes and conducting experiments on himself. He called his autobiography The Story of My Experiments with Truth. Gandhi stated that the most important battle to fight was overcoming his own demons, fears, and insecurities.
In his words, Gandhi stated:
Prolonged training of the individual soul is an absolute necessity

The greater the spirit of passive resistance in us, the better men we will become.

One of the reasons for my departure to India is still further to realize as I already do in part, my own imperfection as a passive resister and then to try to perfect myself….

This requires a detached state of mind, and it is a state very difficult to reach.

God helps when one feels oneself humbler than the very dust under one’s feet….

If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change.
The broad range of these comments indicates a critical, key characteristic of self-improvement – namely, it is open-ended, involves the whole self, and can engage any aspect of the self. The self is freewheeling, unpredictable, uncontrollable, and boundless. The goal of self-improvement is to become a better person, whatever that might mean for each individual, not merely develop pre-defined skills.

If the aim is narrower, like to become a better activist, then restricting oneself to a specific curriculum makes sense. But if the aim is to become a better person, then one must be open and responsive to whatever emerges. Any kind of change may be prompted.

Another key characteristic of self-improvement indicated by Gandhi’s life and teachings is that the honest acknowledgement of mistakes, failures, and shortcomings is essential. As the Dalai Lama said:
There are two things important to keep in mind: self-examination and self-correction. We should constantly check our attitude toward others, examining ourselves carefully, and we should correct ourselves immediately when we find we are in the wrong.
This willingness to be vulnerable is best not left to chance. Without commitment, intentionality, and accountability, one can easily avoid the disciplined effort needed to evolve.

A third lesson we can learn from Gandhi is that personal growth is a social affair. As one who rejected Western hyper-individualism, Gandhi recognized that what one can achieve alone is limited. So he established communal ashrams, or modest residential communities, as places to foster ongoing self-development. Concerning the Sabarmati ashram, he said, "This is the right place for our activities to carry on the search for truth and develop fearlessness.” With a particular emphasis on developing self-discipline, these residential centers nurtured “better men” who practiced nonviolence in all situations.

In Join the Club: How Peer Pressure Can Transform the World, Tina Rosenberg documents the power of peer learning and mutual support. As summarized by the publisher:
She identifies a brewing social revolution that is changing the way people live, based on harnessing the positive force of peer pressure. Her stories of peer power in action show how it has reduced teen smoking in the United States, made villages in India healthier and more prosperous, helped minority students get top grades in college calculus, and even led to the fall of Slobodan Milosevic. She tells how creative social entrepreneurs are starting to use peer pressure to accomplish goals as personal as losing weight and as global as fighting terrorism. Inspiring and engrossing, Join the Club explains how we can better our world through humanity's most powerful and abundant resource: our connections with one another.
A book just released by Berrett-Kohler, True North Groups: A Powerful Path to Personal and Leadership Development, pursues the same theme. The publisher offers this summary of the content:
All too often, we find ourselves forced to confront life’s challenges on our own. What we need is an intimate group with whom we can examine our beliefs and share our lives. For the past thirty-five years, Bill George and Doug Baker have found the answer in True North Groups—small groups that gather regularly to explore members’ greatest challenges. These groups provide opportunities for the honest conversations essential to develop the self-awareness, compassion, emotional intelligence, and authenticity required to be inspired human beings and inspiring leaders.
Gandhi, Rosenberg, George, and Baker all suggest that it is important for peers to honestly face one’s mistakes and provide mutual support to avoid them in the future.

Yet I still know of no progressive political organization that is clearly dedicated to helping its members support one another in their efforts to become better persons (which would also enable them to be more effective activists).

The largest current nonviolent action project is the October2011 Movement, which will be convening in Freedom Plaza in Washington, DC on October 6 to demand the creation of a just and sustainable world. Its website lists “fifteen core issues the country must face.” None of these issues refer to the need for mutual support to foster self-improvement. And the site’s definition of “nonviolent resistance” says nothing about ongoing self-improvement.

The only resource the October2011 site lists under “Nonviolence Resources” is the downloads page of the Metta Center for Nonviolence. The wallet card highlighted there does include a quote from Gandhi that advocates “a change in human nature.” But the principles and strategies included on that card do not affirm open-ended self-improvement. The card only includes, “Do not yield to threats…. Renounce that and you are free.”

Neither does the Metta Center website, with its valuable, extensive collection of resources, affirm the cultivation of inner peace. It does advocate “the conversion of a negative drive, such as anger or fear, into constructive action [which] can be cultivated systematically.” But that emphasis is on channeling negative energies into action, rather than developing a peaceful state of being, which precedes action and is the heart of nonviolence.

Moreover, the site says nothing explicitly about the need for critical self-examination and it offers no concrete methods for providing mutual support for such introspection. Rather the site emphasizes intellectual study.

In the section “What can I do to learn about nonviolence?” the site does recommend forming small supportive groups to engage in study, provide constructive social service, and build alternative institutions. Though a great starting point, this strategy fails to include the need for an explicit commitment to self-improvement and mutual support with regard to that effort.

Perhaps one reason for the general reluctance to fostering self-development is the risk of oppressive authoritarianism. It’s far too easy for charismatic individuals with a vision of a new world to build cults to actualize their vision. But despite those perversions, the impulse to advance human evolution remains valid.

One way to proceed constructively is to insist that each individual define his or her own self-improvement goals, as is the case with the draft format for personal-political support circles. My conversations with my taxi passengers indicate that most people are already aware of how they would like to evolve. And they have sensible notions. But most of us could use more mutual support in our efforts, if only to remind us to stay focused and to hold us accountable.

Regardless, one way or the other, the need to clearly, consciously facilitate both self-improvement and mutual support seems compelling. The dehumanizing forces of modernization are extremely powerful. Countering those forces effectively calls for conscious, disciplined, skillful effort.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

A Personal-Political Support Circle

Contents:
· A Personal-Political Support Circle
· True North Groups
· “Fooled by Science” Excerpt
· Readers' Comments

A Personal-Political Support Circle

On September 9, I sent the following ”An Invitation to Experiment” to about 60 friends and associates:

Can you help test the following format for a “personal-political support circle” Saturday, September 17, 2-5 pm, at 1280 Laguna, #6-J, San Francisco? Please let me know if you’re interested.

Participating in this experiment involves no ongoing commitment. It could be a one-time event.

If you can’t come Sept. 17, can we discuss this idea some other time, either in person, online, or on the phone?

The personal-political support circle, which Brandon Faloona and I designed, is intended to be a simple, user-friendly tool to help political activists become more effective by supporting each other in their self-development efforts.

With no trained facilitator, a wide range of individuals and organizations could conduct circles either just once or on a regular basis. An existing organization could convene a circle at the beginning of their meeting(s). Three or more members of a particular organization could do so separate from their routine meetings. Or friends and/or relatives could gather informally.

Eventually a network of circles might affiliate with one another, share reports on their efforts, and occasionally gather with members from other circles for fun, fellowship, and sharing.

With those thoughts in mind, the proposed format follows:

· Break Bread (informally share a meal, perhaps a potluck, or special snack while enjoying each others’ company).
· Silence (one minute to meditate, pray, reflect, or relax).
· Check-in (going around the circle, individuals report on how they feel at the moment).
· Self-Development Report (going around the circle, individuals report on their recent efforts to be a better person, if any, as well as their thoughts about future such efforts).
· Political Action Report (going around the circle, individuals report on their recent communication with an elected official or public administrator concerning a possible change in public policy, if any, as well as their thoughts about future such efforts).
· Open Agenda (the circle engages in open-ended conversation and/or decision-making about activities in which some or all members may want to participate; if the circle is held at the beginning of an organization’s meeting, it could proceed with its routine agenda).
· Evaluation (individuals report how they feel about the meeting).

Ground rules:
· All comments are kept confidential.
· When going around the circle, participants may choose to pass.
· Each person defines his or her own self-development goals and methods.
· If all participants belong to the same organization, they may coordinate their political action; otherwise each person may define his or her own political action goals and methods.
· When going around the circle, others offer little or no feedback; the emphasis is on listening and being heard.
· Time limits can be established as needed. Apart from the breaking bread and open agenda items, the rest of the circle might take a total of two minutes or so for each participant.

What do you think?

Yours,

Wade
In response, eight women and one man have expressed strong interest. One said, “I am very interested in your process and see it as an important step in the support and development of activists.” Another said, “What do I think? It's great. AND, per usual, how do we get activists and want-to-be activists to participate and essentially ‘break with habits’…”?

Only two respondents, both men, expressed negative comments. One said, “I don’t entirely share your orientation toward personal growth and self-development.” The other said, “What you've come up with is not my bag.” I’ve asked each to elaborate, but have not yet received a response.

Another reason why I believe something like this approach could be helpful is that it could be a way for activists to recruit individuals who aren't currently engaged and support them in acting on their concerns, even if only by communicating with one elected official once a month. Then, after their toe is in the water, more involvement becomes possible.

Unfortunately, however, it is proving difficult to findi time for those who are interested in a “personal-political support circle” to meet.

Despite the strong responses to “Why Compassionate Politics” (see below), the lukewarm feedback thus far to the support-circle idea leads me to suspect that this project may not get off the ground. It may not be a good enough of an idea as currently formulated. The cultural forces militating against it may be too powerful (it’s interesting that most of the affirmation has come from women). Or I may not have the skills and capacity to initiate it.

I’ll continue to test it a bit longer. We do have a small meeting set for October 1 to consider these and related ideas. Only four people are confirmed for that meeting at the moment, but more may join in between now and then. Regardless, I’ll reevaluate everything at this meeting and afterward (after reading True North Groups, which I’ve ordered and is discussed below).

In the meantime, others are welcome to experiment with the “personal-political support circle” format. If you do, please let me know how it goes. Perhaps you can move this idea along.

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True North Groups:
A Powerful Path to Personal and Leadership Development

by Bill George and Doug Baker
Berrett-Koehler Publishers

•By the author of the best-selling True North (150,000 copies sold)
•Offers an innovative way to develop a confidential support group that helps us develop as people and as leaders
•Filled with practical resources to assist in every aspect of creating a True North Group

All too often, we find ourselves forced to confront life’s challenges on our own. What we need is an intimate group with whom we can examine our beliefs and share our lives. For the past thirty-five years, Bill George and Doug Baker have found the answer in True North Groups—small groups that gather regularly to explore members’ greatest challenges. These groups provide opportunities for the honest conversations essential to develop the self-awareness, compassion, emotional intelligence, and authenticity required to be inspired human beings and inspiring leaders.

“At various times,” George and Baker write, “a True North Group will function as a nurturer, a grounding rod, a truth teller, and a mirror. At other times the group functions as a challenger or an inspirer. When people are wracked with self-doubts, it helps build their courage and ability to cope.”

Drawing on recent research in psychology and sociology, George and Baker explain why these groups are so critical to our personal and professional success. They cover every detail from choosing members, establishing norms, and dealing with conflicts to evaluating progress and deciding when it’s time to restructure. True North Groups provides a wealth of practical resources, including suggested topics for the first twelve meetings advice on facilitating groups, techniques to evaluate group satisfaction, and much more.

For the millions of people who are searching for greater meaning and intimacy in their lives, this book will help them to grow as leaders and as people—and to stay on course to their True North.

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From “Fooled by Science,” H. Allen Orr, New York Review of Books.
A Review of The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement
by David Brooks

…Second, most of these biological facts don’t matter, at least for Brooks’s purposes. What of our view of humanity changes if, when parents achieve an “attunement with their kids,” the molecule that “floods through their brains” is schmoxytocin, not oxytocin? The salient fact is that some molecule or some part of the brain underlies various aspects of consciousness or unconsciousness. But this is hardly news. As the philosopher Jerry Fodor once quipped, it’s been clear for a while now that mental processes occur north of the neck. The rest is a sort of biological bookkeeping that, while significant to the specialist, seems to provide the popular writer only with a long list of factoids. It’s not that these facts are wrong or unconnected to the higher-level phenomena—lust, emotional uplift, or insight—that Brooks discusses. They’re just superfluous.

In any case, surely what matters most to us about human nature typically takes place at a more macro level. In the language of biology, human nature is a phenotype—a trait or set of traits that is observable—and the underlying mechanics are a different matter altogether. (By analogy, imagine that an accountant opens a spreadsheet on his computer and unexpectedly announces that you have ten million dollars in your account. It’s true that, when the file was opened, this and that line of code in the computer program was executed. But it would be odd to conclude that this is the level at which something interesting just happened.) This kind of argument can be taken too far but Brooks at least owes us an explanation of why all these biological details are supposed to matter to his project.4

But perhaps the biggest problem with much of the science in The Social Animal is that it doesn’t tell us anything that Brooks’s narrative hasn’t already said. Most of us learn about human nature from experiences in real life or from the lives of those portrayed in fiction. And that’s probably as good a way to learn as any. When we begin to see, in Brooks’s story, that the adolescent Erica will never get far if she doesn’t master her anger, it doesn’t help to be told that, during times of stress, epinephrine surges or that self-control in children is a good statistical predictor of success later in life. As many have noted, our folk psychology differs from our folk physics in that, while the latter is notoriously poor, the former often seems remarkably good. Indeed, as Noam Chomsky famously suggested, when it comes to revealing what makes people tick, a scientific psychology might never outperform the novel. I have no idea whether this is true, but The Social Animal certainly makes one take the possibility seriously.

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Readers' Comments

Readers submitted the following comments in response to Why Compassionate Politics:

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i really like what you said and i totally agree - will have more time to think on these things in a little while.....will contact you from mexico. thanks for keeping on wade -- you're a good man.

loving blessings,

Gail Keene

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This is fabulous. You are definitely on the right track.

JaneAnne Jeffries

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One of the best WW yet!

Mary Hudson

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Hi Wade, Take a look at The Watchman's Rattle by Rebecca D. Costa. Good insight into this problem from a different perspective. How complexity leads to over load and the loss of cognitive skills which are replaced by beliefs that are not looking for working solutions. Her book foreshadows the Rep./Tea Party obstructionism with no proposed solutions.

Robert Kourik

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I just read your posting to Shared Purpose. Your statement -- “To my mind, to transform our social system, we must simultaneously change our institutions, our cultures, and ourselves.” – prompted me to wonder if you had read any of the works of Ken Wilber, specifically about his AQAL model – which explains why your statement is exactly on the money.
If you have not heard of Ken Wilber, please let me know, and I will describe the AQAL model for you.
Thanks for your thoughts about this important subject…..

Lynne Monds

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Good morning, Wade. Thanks for this message. I think your interview of the disaffected activist is very telling. I want to forward your message to another project, because I think it makes some strong points.

This question – of why activism – informed and truly insightful activism – is so difficult – is a very tough question.

Personally, I think the answer has to do with all the points your respondent mentioned
“Yes. Self-righteousness. Seeing everything in black and white. Taking the hard line.”
And maybe a few more – like complexity and the exploding interdependence of issues – and what I like to describe as “bandwidth limitations in human cognition”.

Put another way – there is too much going on, it is moving too fast, and we don’t have a way of understanding it that can keep up with the pace of change. We don’t have a vision, we don’t have a comprehensive framework to understand what is happening.

So – we revert to simplistic models with strong self-righteous tendencies – assume that we ourselves are the good guys, and the other guys are at best the unknowing dupes of some evil power (corporations, lobbyists, whatever).

Just for a simple-minded example – Obama was forced by our existing framework to choose “healthcare” rather than “jobs” – because in this current framework, he could only hope to take on one at a time. Is that his fault? Probably not – but an answer – a way forward, a way to overcome this problem – has to come from somewhere.

And I think that “somewhere” is going to have to come from spirit – the normal human link to broadband deep intuition and holistic perspective. We have to find a way to “get integral” – to somehow formulate a model that includes all the simultaneous forces – which are currently blowing us away and leaving our congress in something like static gridlock.

On my sharedpurpose.net system, we are just beginning a conversation on Thomas Friedman’s new book, “That Used to Be Us”. If you had the time, maybe you and I could talk a little bit about how “compassionate politics” could play a critically important role in the emergence of something new. Personally, I think it’s the only way. We need “the power of the spirit” reaching out in every direction – in the form of “community weaving” – pulling all the simultaneous contingent forces into one holistic/integral framework, almost certainly coordinated over the internet – bringing everything into one framework – in a way that follows that simple model of the NoLabels.org motto – “Everybody AT the table, everything ON the table…”

That conversation on sharedpurpose.net is right here:
http://sharedpurpose.net/groups/forum.cfm?tq=579379&login=100803
If you got the time, I think your comments on “Compassionate Politics” would reach an interested audience – many in the Bay Area.

Thanks Wade – hang tough, keep banging.
Bruce Schuman