I appreciate your honesty and substance, as usual.
I would love you to have a wide audience as what you say is thoughtful, meaningful, and of use, as well as important.
But all I can do is appreciate hearing your articulation, feeling the support and a “light” in the seeming hopelessness of the darkness descending.
Whether you can continue, or not, I’m grateful for these posts.
I wish you, and all, a miracle of hope and generosity. May it be in our lifetimes, and may our lives make sanity, the welfare of all inhabitants of this planet possible long after we are gone.
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I hope you don’t give up, Wade. But trying to function on the left is really hard. You have the people with a lot of class privilege, mostly but not entirely white. Then you have a lot of other people who become “leaders” by trashing everyone else who isn’t in their particular identity group. How it advances one’s cause baffles me, because if you antagonize your allies you won’t have any. Reading what I just wrote makes me want to give up too.
I really like your honest approach to things, and I think what you have been writing has become more and more insightful. Unfortunately, the truth of the insights makes me, at least, want to give up myself. How can the left accomplish anything when its worldview, in practice, is just as anti-human as that on the right? Who is going to be inspired by this crap? ... Wade, as I wrote elsewhere, I think your thoughtful comments are very important, and I hope you don't give up.
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Good piece -- thanks for sharing.
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Don't lose heart!
That's a really sad story you told, about your angry interlocutor who no longer wants to read what you have to say, or have a dialogue with you. There's a person who's hurting so deeply, that they lash out at even at those who are most likely to listen considerately to them, and even somebody as cautious in making judgements as myself can only think: is that really what a measured and adult response looks like?
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I doubt that you have ever intentionally disrespected that person, and know that you are usually pretty careful to write what you mean, choosing your words to convey quite precise shades of meaning. The only point they make that I would have to agree with is this: guessing what "most persons of" any group - race, colour, class, nationality, religion or sect, political party or side, gender or sexual orientation - just isn't likely to resonate with "most" - or even many - persons of that group. Putting it another way: making a generalisation about how people are likely to think, feel or behave based on (one of) their overt group memberships runs the risk of alienating many of that group's members, because every group is comprised of individuals with (usually) as many points of difference as of commonality.
A thought for you: This may be one of the lessons of intersectionality ... we are all unique in our situations, being at once a member of many different groups that, taken as a whole, often have different default positions or understandings; as individuals, we often have to resolve conflicts between the (majority or default) positions and viewpoints of the various groups we belong to.
For example, if you know that I'm:
an Australian,
a Muslim,
a mathematician,
a husband, father and grandfather,
a teacher and a business analyst
- does this tell you in convincing terms what my position would be on, say,
our military involvement in Afghanistan and Iraq?
evolution and creation science?
religious education?
sexual mores and laws, such as the age of consent, abortion, homosexuality or in vitro fertilisation?
I'm confident that, while you could take reasonable guesses at all of these, you'd miss the mark fairly widely on some. More importantly, I'd be happy to tell you if you asked - which means you don't have to guess at all!
But the reason I'm writing to you is this: to tell you that what you've been doing is more useful than you can know. Sometimes, you are (possibly) too humble! Arrogance and thoughtlessness do NOT spring to mind as adjectives to describe "Wade Hudson"! Know that even the gadfly has its use: it keeps the beast moving ...
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The person who wrote those comments ("Don't speculate on what people of color...") is neither an activist nor a progressive, and he does not speak for people of color any more than you speak for white people. He's a reactionary.
I no longer have tolerance for the type of bigotry that leads so many, in a moment of truth, to reply to comments such as yours by saying such things as "your bullshit" and issuing such emotionally violent insults as "check your white privilege" to someone who is so far removed from the upper class as to make such an insult ludicrous.
Progressives need to understand that identity politics is not a leftist or a progressive movement - it is a rightist and reactionary movement. The 'grey area' has separated into a sharp line and a categorical distinction - in our time in history, the identity-politics left is no different from the Donald Trump right - they are two forms of the same reactionaryism that causes neighbor to hate neighbor and to split and divide by race and gender so that some can be elevated while others are crushed, rather than struggling for a better system together for all.
I urge you, for example, to listen to the speeches of Fred Hampton from the Black Panther party whose anti-racism was fundamentally embedded in what was deeply understood to be the primary struggle of overturning corporate capitalism and materialism and fighting for what he called socialism. The Black Panther party was absolutely adamant about not replacing white elites with some fraction of black elites - by not replacing one oppressor with another - and to them it was very clear that this meant economic oppression. The anti-racist struggle of the Black Panther party was always in that frame, as it must be, because people are not born racist - they are driven by circumstance to be so.
The "African American activist" you quote is so far removed from the true anti-racist activism represented by the Black Panther party that it would be an insult to their memory for him to even claim he understands what the Black Panther party represents.
We have a long, long ways to go. I do not even attempt to engage in the world of leftists because leftism has been overtaken by identity politics. It is simply impossible to try to reason or be honest (as you have been) with leftist culture today. You are bound to run into emotionally violent hatred in response to your efforts - from those who label themselves as leftists, most of all. Attempting to reason with this type of politically-correct reactionary thinking is no more likely to succeed than attempting to reason with a white supremacist group.
It is going to take an ideological tremor carrying the force of an earthquake before there will be any good openings to finally address the real systemic issues facing our world - war, materialism, greed, and spiritual stultification born of waste and decay. "Check your white privilege" does nothing to move us forward - it is pure reactionaryism, pure emotional violence, enforced by a power-hungry culture of "the prestige of self-righteousness". It's about time progressives don't cow-tow to politically correct violence. It is the tragic truth.
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Yes, please speak your truth.
I always appreciate it, even when I disagree with it.
I wish in our culture more people gave, and many more people accepted, unsolicited advice.
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I read your writings. I always have. I’ve read your stories. Ever since we connected over Charter for Compassion.
I’ve sent your links, joined groups you’ve been a member, posted many of your thoughts on social media, encouraged others in the Bay Area to connect with you. I share in your frustrations.
Know that conversations and dialogue can matter. You need not have to have a large pulpit or a growing mailing list to make a difference. I look forward to knowing of all the ways you share your truth…either through a single correspondence or conversation via email or phone…or by one day taking a cab in the bay and finding you as the driver.
Hang in there.
Best wishes to you for 2017.
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Those words of support hearten me. Hopefully they will help me proceed with a better attitude, and perhaps squeeze out more time for productive efforts.
Concerning the last comment, though in context I think it is implied, on reflection I think I should have added a parenthetical comment to clarify the opening sentence. So I’ve edited the post to read: “Trump wasn’t condescending (toward the white working class),” said one of my taxi passengers,...”
Overall, however, I disagree with that criticism. I believe the left does have a problem with “political correctness,” which is why Trump was able to exploit that theme. More seriously, the reluctance to be self-critical on this point reflects a general reluctance to be self-critical.
Since posting Political Correctness in 2016, I’ve read “Not a Very P.C. Thing to Say: How the Language Police Are Perverting Liberalism” by Jonathan Chait in the New York Magazine. It’s a lengthy account of many battles that have been fought on this turf. I found it compelling. But in case you don’t want to read the entire article, I post here the conclusion:
The p.c. style of politics has one serious, possibly fatal drawback: It is exhausting. Claims of victimhood that are useful within the left-wing subculture may alienate much of America. The movement’s dour puritanism can move people to outrage, but it may prove ill suited to the hopeful mood required of mass politics. Nor does it bode well for the movement’s longevity that many of its allies are worn out. “It seems to me now that the public face of social liberalism has ceased to seem positive, joyful, human, and freeing,” confessed the progressive writer Freddie deBoer. “There are so many ways to step on a land mine now, so many terms that have become forbidden, so many attitudes that will get you cast out if you even appear to hold them. I’m far from alone in feeling that it’s typically not worth it to engage, given the risks.” Goldberg wrote recently about people “who feel emotionally savaged by their involvement in [online feminism] — not because of sexist trolls, but because of the slashing righteousness of other feminists.” Former Feministing editor Samhita Mukhopadhyay told her, “Everyone is so scared to speak right now.”
That the new political correctness has bludgeoned even many of its own supporters into despondent silence is a triumph, but one of limited use. Politics in a democracy is still based on getting people to agree with you, not making them afraid to disagree. The historical record of political movements that sought to expand freedom for the oppressed by eliminating it for their enemies is dismal. The historical record of American liberalism, which has extended social freedoms to blacks, Jews, gays, and women, is glorious. And that glory rests in its confidence in the ultimate power of reason, not coercion, to triumph.
Knowing that others feel bludgeoned into tired silence helps me feel less alone, which motivates me to persevere.
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